A man about my age tells the story that recently he was on an airplane
when an attractive lady, somewhere in her 20’s, asked if she could sit
next to him. His male ego soared. Soon they were chatting pleasantly. She
told him it was her first airplane ride and a friend told her she would be
less nervous if she sat next to someone she thought she could trust. She
continued, saying: “You look just like my father.”
A man died and when he got to heaven he made an appointment to meet with
God. He said he had some questions that had puzzled him all his life that
he had to have answered. So God met with him and he asked God: “Why did
you make women with such beautiful faces?” God said: “So you would love
them.” Then he asked, “why did you give women such beautiful bodies?”
Again God said “So you would love them.” Then he asked: “Well, God, why
did you make women – you know – not very smart?” God said: “So they would
love you!”
Jesus said, “everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who
humbles himself will be exalted.” We all enjoy and even laugh at seeing
someone who is full of themselves be cut down to size. I love the comment
Golda Meir, the Prime Minister of Israel, made to a visiting diplomat who
was trying to be very humble as he spoke to her. She brought him back down
to earth with the comment: “Don’t be so humble – you’re not that great.” I
am certain Jesus had a great sense of humor and there was some humor in
his little story about the person who tried to get into the most honored
position at the dinner and he was asked to move down.
Jesus’ teaching about taking the lowest place at a banquet with the hope
that the host would say “My friend, move to a higher position,” is not
really an example of true humility. It only shows that even in everyday
activities not being prideful can have an advantage. The person who picks
the lowest place with the hope of being given more honors may not be any
less proud than the person who pushes himself to the front of the line,
but may simply be more clever. When I was younger I used to sit in the
back of church and very proudly considered myself to be more humble than
the rest of the people there. When I realized that where I was sitting had
nothing to do with humility, I decided to sit up further and was amazed to
find out how much more I got out of the Mass. To return to the gospel, for
the Jews at the time of Jesus it was a very important thing as to where a
person sat in an assembly or at a table. We are not quite so conscious
about that today, but probably no more humble than the people of Jesus’
day. We have created our own symbols of status in modern day society.
Jesus’ teaching on true humility comes when he tells us about inviting the
poor, the crippled, the lame and the blind; those who cannot repay the
favor. Humility is the ability to see everyone as having been created in
the image and likeness of God. Christ-like humility is a love for all
people because they are loved by God. Jesus not only taught it but
practiced it. He responded to all people. He often got in trouble with the
religious leaders for associating too often with those who were considered
to be on the bottom rung of the social ladder. I wonder if humility is not
so much about what we think of ourselves, as it’s about what we think of
others and how we treat them. Of course, that includes what we think about
God and how much we are aware of how dependent we are on our Creator.
The word “humility” comes from the Latin word humus, which means earth. No
matter how wonderful we believe we may be, and each of us is a wonderful
gift of God, we can’t forget where we all came from. We can’t forget that
the Son of God came down to us to share his life with us. “I came that
they might have life and may have it to the full.” This will be a
revelation of great wonder and we will discover how truly wonderful we are
with God’s grace.
As you come to Mass today, you are showing you recognize that dependence.
Thus you are truly humble and are grounded in truth as you express it in
our liturgy.
23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time
September 9, 2007
INTRODUCTION: (Philemon: 9-10,12-17) When we think of slavery we
think of the brutal situation of African slaves as it existed in our own
country up until the middle of the 19th century. In the Roman Empire 20
centuries ago, where slavery was common, it was much different. Slaves
came from nations and peoples that Rome had conquered. There were probably
more white slaves than blacks. Many would have been educated or highly
skilled and would have worked as musicians, scribes, craftsmen, teachers
and even doctors. Slaves could be set free by their masters for good
service or a slave could sometimes save up enough money to buy his or her
own freedom. Today’s second reading is about a slave, Onesimus. He escaped
from his master, Philemon. By law Onesimus could have been put to death
for escaping. He knew Paul for Paul had converted his master, Philemon to
Christ. So, in fear for his life he ran to St. Paul, who was in prison at
the time, probably in Ephesus. In those days prisoners were just locked up
and they were not given three square meals a day or gymnasiums to work out
in or cable TV’s to entertain them. Unless a prisoner had someone to bring
them food and take care of their needs, they probably would have starved
to death. So, while Onesimus was with Paul, he took care of him and in the
process Paul converted him to Christ. Paul thus sees himself as his
spiritual father and refers to Onesimus as his own child. Paul felt an
obligation to send him back to Philemon. He didn’t feel right benefiting
from a gift that had not been given to him. Paul asked Philemon in the
letter we hear in today’s second reading to receive Onesimus back, not as
a piece of property, but as a brother in the Lord. Christianity transcends
all other relationships as we hear in today’s gospel.
HOMILY: Jesus was on his way to Jerusalem. St. Luke tells us he was
traveling with great crowds. Jesus’ disciples and the people following him
were expecting some major changes in their lives when Jesus would arrive
in Jerusalem. They expected Jesus would spearhead a resistance against
their Roman oppressors, drive the Roman army out of Israel and take
control of their land and their lives. For almost 600 years they lived
under the rule of foreign kings. Now they would have their land back and
their own king. Not only would they be free but life would be really
wonderful for God’s people for Jesus had unusual powers: he could heal the
sick, feed the hungry, even raise the dead. No king in the history of the
world would be so great! They anticipated Jesus would be their messiah and
life would be fantastic. Jesus knew differently. He alone knew what was
about to happen. So he told them, as he always spoke the truth, you can’t
follow me unless you hate your father and mother, wife and children,
brothers and sisters and even your own life. You’ll have a cross to pick
up if you want to be my disciple. Like a man building a tower or a king
going into battle, are they prepared for what they would face, are they
sure they have what it takes?
One wonders what happened to the great crowds following him. Did they
begin to drift off? There’s one word in today’s gospel that really shocks
us (as I’m sure it shocked those who heard him): the word “hate.”
Certainly we know Jesus doesn’t want us to hate anyone. So how could Jesus
tell us to “hate” even those closest to us? The oldest document we have
that reports Jesus’ words is the Greek text of the gospels. Indeed, the
Greek uses the verb “miseo” which means “hate.” It is from that word that
we get such English words as: misanthrope and misogyny. Miseo, however,
has a secondary meaning which is “to prefer or favor something or someone
less.” And of course this is what Jesus means. St. Matthew helps us
understand exactly what Jesus meant when he quoted Jesus in a parallel
passage in his gospel, where Jesus said: “Whoever loves his father or
mother, brother or sister, more than me is not worthy of me.” The only
thing Jesus wants us to truly hate is sin. But Jesus statement is still
very challenging in that he is telling us if we are going to follow him,
he must be more important to us than everyone and everything in our lives.
He must be more important to us than even our own physical life. And
indeed many Christians have had to face that dilemma and have given up
life in this world in order to hold on to their faith. We call them
martyrs, not the kind of martyrs who are suicide bombers who want to maim
and kill, but martyrs in the sense of witnesses, witnesses to love: love
for Jesus and love for others. In brief, we must be willing to lose
everything rather than lose Jesus, or we are not his disciple.
Jesus would make a very poor politician. He doesn’t tell us things we like
to hear. He tells it like it is. He tells us it will not always be easy if
we go with him. True, but I have seen over and over again, life is even
harder if we try to live our lives without him. Only those who have made
the decision to put Christ first know that they have really gained
everything, for in Jesus is the fullness of life, the fullness of all that
is good.
Too many Christians think of their faith like some kind of insurance. As
long as they pay their premiums they’re protected. And they try to figure
out what is the minimum they can get by with to still be covered. For
example, if the rule says go to Mass every Sunday, they figure well maybe
once or twice a month will be just as good. If the rule says love your
neighbor, well maybe I’ll still be covered if I don’t hurt anyone even if
I never do anything to help anyone. I’m sure you can think of other
examples of what one theologian called “cheap grace.” The story of the
tower half built is an image of our spiritual lives when they are built on
half-hearted efforts. Heaven is not going to be “pie in the sky.” Heaven
is the happiness of surrendering ourselves to the greatest lover in the
universe.
24th Sunday in Ordinary Time
September 16, 2007
INTRODUCTION: Our first reading (Exodus 32,7-11.13-14) takes us
back to the time of Moses, about 1300 years before Christ. The people of
Israel were a slaves who had just escaped from Egypt through God’s power
and Moses’ leadership. God had just made them his people at Mt. Sinai
through a covenant in which they pledged to honor Yahweh as their only
God. God then called Moses to the top of Mt. Sinai to speak further with
him. With their leader out of sight, the people got into trouble. Probably
following the customs of the Egyptians, they tried to represent their God
in animal form and they fashioned for themselves a golden calf. This is
where our first reading begins. God is angry with his people. Notice, in
speaking to Moses, he calls them “your people.” Moses becomes an
intercessor for the people and “convinces” God to be forgiving. His prayer
displays total unselfishness. God, of course, forgives them. In the second
reading we hear St. Paul describe what a sinful person he once was and how
God was merciful to him (1 Tim, 1,12-17). Jesus gives us three beautiful
parables on forgiveness in today’s gospel (Lk. 15,1-32).
HOMILY: The criminal was being led to the courtroom by the bailiff.
On the way the criminal asked if the judge was a tough one. The bailiff
said “yes, he’s as tough as Pontius Pilate.” The criminal said “Was this
Pilate judge tough? I ain’t never heard of him since I ain’t from this
area.”
Gratefully our Lord is not as tough on us as we were on him when he was
accused before Pilate. Our readings today are about God’s forgiveness. St.
Paul tells us today “You can depend on this as worthy of full acceptance:
that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners.”
We have just heard three parables about God’s forgiveness. The first and
second are very similar (about the good shepherd who seeks for the one
lost sheep and the woman who seeks for the one lost coin). They tell us
each and every one of us are important to God. God is not ready to say “I
have so many people who believe in me and love me that this one or that
one who doesn’t isn’t all that important.” Each of us is important and is
loved.
Then there is the story of the prodigal son. I think it is a magnificent
description of the divine-human dynamic. Some people may find the story
offensive and feel it is unfair as the elder son did. I often think, if
God were to stick by what is fair and give all of us what we deserve, we
would all be in trouble. I’m grateful for a God whose sense of love
outweighs his sense of fairness. The story shows us that God’s mercy is
always there for us, but it depends on us as to whether we receive it. If
we have moved away from God, God’s mercy cannot reach us until we
recognize where we are and “come to our senses” as the young man in
today’s gospel. The young man had to make a 180-degree turnaround. Notice
he came home intending to be only a servant, a hired hand, but he was
fully restored to his father’s home and his father’s love (less his
inheritance which was already gone by this time).
I would like to mention another aspect of forgiveness between God and
ourselves. Sometimes in life we have to forgive God. Terrible things
happen in people’s lives; that’s part of being human. But sometimes people
blame God for it and they spend many years angry at God because of what
happened.
As with any anger or resentment, if we carry it around for long, it only
eats us up inside. At times it may be understandable, but even then it
does no good to hang on to it. It will only drag us down and destroy our
peace of mind. The only thing any of us can do when we have questions
about why things happen, or even when we get angry about things, is to
reaffirm our faith that God is in charge and knows what he’s doing. We
have to trust that he loves us. Meditating on the cross can help us do
that.
To sum all this up, we must be patient with God and trust him. Thankfully
he is patient with us. If life takes us in the wrong direction, if we get
lost, God will seek us out and take us back. But we have to choose not to
stay lost and in humility head back home. The homecoming will be something
to celebrate.
25th Sunday in Ordinary Time
September 23, 2007
INTRODUCTION Our first reading comes from 2700 years ago. Israel
was enjoying a time of great prosperity materially, but not spiritually.
Their prosperity turned their minds away from God. They resented the
Sabbath and the new moon. These were holy days on which work was
forbidden. This kept them from what they considered the most important
thing in life - making money. The ephah and shekel were weights they used
to weigh the produce they bought and to weigh the produce they sold.
Apparently they frequently used dishonest weights so they could cheat both
supplier and customer. They even exploited their customers by mixing
useless materials in with the products they wanted to sell – such as
mixing chaff with the wheat. The world has changed in 2700 years, but
human nature hasn’t.
HOMILY: One time Mark Twain was involved in an argument about
marriage with a Mormon. The Mormon said to Twain, “show me one place in
the bible where having more than one wife is forbidden.” Twain said,
“that’s easy. The bible said: ‘no man can serve two masters.’”
Amos the prophet is not shy about telling God’s people (us included) how
God despises dishonesty and injustice. We just got a sampling of his
preaching in today’s first reading. In our gospel, we may be left a bit
confused. It sounds as if Our Lord is speaking in a somewhat approving way
of the dishonest steward. The steward may have squandered his master’s
property, enriched himself at his master’s expense, or he may simply have
been incompetent. Our Lord doesn’t give us the details as to why he lost
his job. Even if he was incompetent, he was bright enough to provide for
his future. Before he left his position, he called in all the people who
owed his master money and reduced the size of their debt. Then they would
be indebted to him. Commentators suggest perhaps he was eliminating any
commission that would have been due to him. Whatever was behind all of
this, his dishonesty was not grand larceny or he would have been worried
about jail rather than being worried about digging or begging. If we try
to figure out the details, we’ll miss the main point of the parable, and
that’s all a parable is - a simple story with one point. The point is
people work very hard at providing for their wellbeing in this life. How
hard or dedicated are we in providing for our spiritual wellbeing?
We are stewards of the time, the talents, and the material resources that
we’ve been given. We can waste them, we can use them to serve only our own
selfish interests, we can even use them to take advantage of others or to
help others. We have to remember that we have One higher than ourselves to
whom we will have to make an accounting of how well we’ve used the gifts
we’ve been given.
Let me expand on this using two examples: time and money (two things that
tell us where our priorities lie). How many times I’ve heard people say “I
would like to pray more,” “I would like to do more to help others, etc.,”
and “when I have more time.” We all have the same amount of time, 24
hours. The secret of finding more time is good time management. The secret
of good time management is setting priorities. In the past I frequently
had difficulty getting all of my meditation in during the day. Once I
decided to put meditation at the top of the list of things I had to do
that day, I never had any difficulty after that. I’m not saying it’s the
very first thing I do in the morning, sometimes it’s close to the last
thing I do at night, but it always takes priority over any other
discretionary time I have that day. Now I have to work on getting more
exercise.
Another example involves money. Do we need it? Of course. It represents a
roof over our heads and food on our tables. Too often we equate it with
happiness and power but acquiring it can control people’s lives. Jesus
wants us to use it wisely but not let it become our master. One way of
keeping things in perspective in this area is to tithe. I think that’s
what Our Lord means when he says, “make friends for yourselves with wicked
money, so that when it fails, you will be welcomed into eternal
dwellings.”
Jesus tells us today as “children of the light” we have to provide for our
spiritual lives just as seriously as people provide for their material
needs. In other words, “be smart!” And we are being smart when we realize
this life is only temporary (important as it may be), but the next life
will last forever.
26th Sunday Ordinary Time
September 30, 2007
INTRODUCTION: Last week’s
first reading was from Amos and so is today’s. Last week his prophecy was
aimed at materialism and the oppression of the poor in the northern
kingdom of Israel. Today’s reading (Amos 6, 1a.4-7) seems directed
to the people in the southern kingdom, “the complacent in Zion” (another
name for Jerusalem). Perhaps this warning came after the Assyrians
destroyed the northern kingdom which is called “Joseph” in today’s
reading. The complacent in Jerusalem were living pampered, comfortable
lives, paying no attention to the devastation of the north and not
concerned that their own country was headed toward the same fate because
of their social and moral depravity. Amos was a true prophet whose words
to be true.
HOMILY: Two men were in a private plane and they crashed on an
island in the South Pacific. They both survived and one of the survivors
right away surveyed the island and returned to his buddy to tell him they
were doomed. The island was uninhabited and he could find no food or
water. His buddy said “Not to worry. I make $250,000 a week.” The man
shook his friend and said “You don’t understand. We’re going to die.
There’s no one around, no food, no water.” His buddy repeated: “Not to
worry. I make $250,000 a week.” Once more he screamed at him saying:
“Don’t you hear me. We’re going to die. There’s no food, no water, no
one around.” His buddy said: “Don’t worry. I make $250,000 a week. I’m
a Church going Christian and I tithe. My pastor will find us!”
Today’s gospel (Lk. 16, 19-31) always leaves me feeling guilty. I
live a fairly comfortable life (I have a place to live, enough to eat, a
bed to sleep in, I like to go out occasionally for a nice meal) and there
are so many people like Lazarus out there. I try to give generously to
charity, but the many people suffering all over the world is
overwhelming. I’m sure many of you feel the same way. At the same time,
I hate to be taken advantage of by phonies and that has happened more
times than I would like to admit in the past 43 years. I just do what I
can, knowing I can’t solve every problem. It’s good to be challenged by
Jesus, however, because unless we’re challenged, we easily become
complacent and self centered. That’s what happened to the people of
Jerusalem at the time of Amos. That’s what happened to the rich man in
today’s gospel.
Amos and Jesus are not saying a person will automatically be condemned
because they are wealthy or will automatically be saved because they are
poor. We will all be judged by the same law, the great commandment of
love - love for God and love for others. I know people who are well off
and at the same time they are very loving and generous, and I know people
who are poor who are self-centered and egotistical. Having wealth is not
necessarily a vice and being poor is not necessarily virtuous. The rich
man in today’s gospel was condemned not because he was a bad man, cruel,
violent or evil; he was condemned for a lack of love. For him Lazarus
just didn’t exist. When the rich man wanted a favor from Lazarus in the
next life, Abraham told him that there was a great chasm between the two
of them. One commentator pointed out that the rich man was the one who
created the chasm in the first place, holding Lazarus at arms length as if
he wasn’t there. Even in the next life, the rich man treated Lazarus as
his lackey, not even addressing him but asking Abraham to send him to
bring water or to go to warn his brothers.
Probably no society in the history of this world has enjoyed comfort than
we do in America today. Kings and emperors did not live as well as most
middle class families in America. Comfort is not sinful. But it is
distracting and can be dangerous in that it can make us turn our attention
increasingly toward ourselves and help us to forget about our
responsibility to help others.
Our readings today force us to consider our personal attitude toward the
material blessings we enjoy. The essence of today’s readings is that no
matter how hard we’ve worked or how talented we may be or how thrifty
we’ve been, what we have is not just for our own self indulgence. We must
share with others. The irony of this is that on the whole, those who have
less of this world’s goods are more generous than those who have
been blessed with more. I say this because statistics show that, in
general, the more income a person has the less, percentage wise, they give
to charity. That is really ironic.
Most often Jesus’ words are very comforting, but today’s readings may make
us uncomfortable, especially if we need to be made more sensitive to the
suffering of others. If Jesus makes us uncomfortable it’s to help us
think about what God wants from us and if we are doing what he wants?
Jesus wants only one thing, our salvation, and the only way that can
happen is if we follow the way he has shown us.
If we keep remembering where
our blessings come from, then we will be more likely to remember that they
have not been given to us just to help us become selfish, self-centered
people. Our great prayer of thanksgiving each week, which we call the
Mass or the Eucharist, helps us to keep remembering where all our
blessings come from.